Get A New Girlfriend

You’ll notice it next time you’re at a club. It gets to around 1 a.m. and there is a tall blonde man on the dancefloor making out with a cute brunette. And I mean really making out. The guy is going at it with so much gusto you wonder how long it’s been since he’s been laid. You might think he’s about to break his dry spell, but the truth is probably a little different.

The club can be a surreal place for a woman. Flashing lights, loud music. Alcohol. A woman wouldn’t make out with you after an hour if she met you socially at a dinner party, but she might in a club. The thing is, if you make out with her in the club after an hour, you can create a greater mental distance from her regular life. That means there is less chance of you sleeping with her, or having a relationship with her. You become the “tacky make-out guy”, and there’s no going back.

Of course you can make out with a girl in a club and still lay her. I’ve done it. If your intuition tells you it’s the right time, then go for it. However, in general there is a clear gap in a girl’s mind between fun for now and fun for later. A cool guy doesn’t need to be intimate in a public environment when he knows he can get it in his bedroom, in private. Foreplay leads to sex, and you’re probably not going to have sex with a girl on the dancefloor – so save the foreplay for later. Let the sexual tension build. Give her a little peck, or kiss her on the neck. It still makes it clear to her what your intentions are, but she’s still getting more intrigued – instead of giving her all your passion on the dancefloor and removing the mystery.

Use The Way Assholes Get Girls, Without Being An Asshole

If you’re not living in a Hollywood movie, you’ve probably noticed sometimes that it’s not always the nice guys that get the girls. In fact, often it’s the scumbags who have hot girlfriends that they treat like rubbish. Assholes do get girls, and it’s not necessarily because they’re assholes. I’m going to break it down for you, and show you how you can use these lessons for yourself.

1. Assholes are (or appear) indifferent to others’ opinions of them. The downside is, they’re also unempathetic, which means they can’t respond in a positive way to others’ emotions.
2. Assholes do not shy away from confrontation. However, he also probably instigates confrontations, causing more trouble than it’s worth.
3. An asshole speaks his mind. Though, he might go out of his way to provoke a woman, or do things deliberately to be seen as an asshole.

These are the key reasons why an asshole gets girls. You can see clearly that they’re not all bad things, however in most people’s eyes, the negatives outweigh the positives. The good news is, you can learn from this. You can learn to not give a fuck what other people think of you, how to face confrontation (without escalating it) and how to speak your mind. You can extract the positive essence and use it to your advantage. I’ll show you how in a following post.